Muchness

Living each day much muchier

The Boiling Frog

The image of emotional abuse is a woman looking distressed and a man looking angry. The MO seems pretty straightforward. He starts off as a loving and attentive partner and … Continue reading

December 17, 2015 · 1 Comment

Walking with elephants

We all know about the elephant in the room. It’s that huge, looming thing no-one wants to talk about for fear of upsetting the status quo. Sometimes, there are elephants that follow you around. Your own, personal elephant that you refused to mention to yourself, because if you turn around and acknowledge it, everything has to change.

October 11, 2015 · 3 Comments

Monsters are real

Monsters are real and they live in your head. Just because you can’t see them, doesn’t mean they don’t exist. “In your head” is as real a place as any. … Continue reading

September 7, 2015 · 7 Comments

In love with the pain

The new Disney Pixar movie Inside Out is wonderful because it introduces a positive role for sadness.  Sadness can be cleansing. It can bring wisdom. It can heal and help … Continue reading

August 24, 2015 · Leave a comment

How I met your mother

Sure, there are lots of ways you probably don’t want to be like your parents. You may or may not want the kind of relationship they had.

But if they had a story of love, chances are you expect something like that should happen to you.

August 14, 2015 · Leave a comment

Hope and expectation

Hope and expectation are tied together with love and hate. They’re at war when you struggle to believe what you ache for is possible. Then sometimes — and if you’re not careful — they fall in love under romantic circumstances and run away together, leaving reality far, far behind.

August 11, 2015 · 8 Comments

New lessons from the past

I don’t write what I know. It breaks a cardinal rule of writing, but I couldn’t possibly know all the things I’ve supposed here in this blog. I’ve lived it … Continue reading

April 11, 2015 · 2 Comments

As you are

Let the world know you as you are, not as you think you should be, because sooner or later if you are posing, you will forget the pose, and then … Continue reading

September 12, 2014 · 2 Comments

How full is your glass?

Whether the glass is half full or empty is irrelevant, what matters is how much is left in the bottle. Unknown    I saw this on a cafe A-frame yesterday … Continue reading

August 23, 2014 · Leave a comment
Follow Muchness on WordPress.com

Archives

From my other blog: Wonder what's there?

Who am I?

Department of Words

Department of Words

Thinker. Writer. Photographer. Dancer. Not necessarily in that order.

Personal Links

View Full Profile →